This blog was started a year ago in the weeks after we lost our house. It was one of the most devastating experiences of my life.
One minute I was a home owner….
And in the next the bank was changing the locks.
We didn’t even have time to get everything out of the house. The court made the order to repossess just a few days before Christmas and we decided to spend the holiday celebrating with our kids rather than packing.
Most folks would say that loosing your home has to be one of the Most Terrible Things Ever. And it’s true. When the bank forecloses on your house, you feel like shit. To deny that would be a lie.
But here’s the thing – it’s not at bad as you think.
And in some ways, it’s a gift. At least it was for me.
There are many things in life that will make you afraid. Some will even keep you awake at night.
I do not mean “The Boogey Man is hiding in the closet/I’ve had a bad dream/I don’t like heights” kind of fear. No, I am speaking of the “self-doubt/risk averse/I’m not good enough” kind of fear that haunts us all.
To learn how to live with fear such as these is to lead a life of courage. And it isn’t always easy.
Here are some lessons on how to live with fear that I want my children to remember:
1. You will fail
You are a child of the Most High, my own little piece of Cosmic Stardust, capable of moving mountains and lighting up the Universe with all that you have the potential to achieve. But there will be a time in your life when you will fail.